Ahh..finally i am ready with another piece of writing which won't suck the way the earlier post did..lol (apologies for that) :P
You might find this rant an opposite one of the earlier one. Whateva, doesn't matter, but I have really got something great to share.
Its almost 20 days when i started blogging and dint write anything after that day. In these 20 days, I found, "the lost ME", "my love for myself". I stopped cribbing over what people did to me and the way they made me feel, I made sure my mood is awesome, watched my favorite movies and ate my favorite delicacies made by my super mom. Trust me,it felt like heaven. anyways, let's read over.
At times in life, we feel under-confident? We often feel we are incapable? Thoughts like "we are a loser" come across our minds. It happens with almost every person but with some of them it stays for long and become their personality.Under-confidence, incapability, incompetence and hence, Failure become their idiosyncrasy. The coercion and burden of proving oneself lets him fall a prey to these vices which if not realized at an early stage would lead to a very sad ending without being able to actually start anything.
And all this while, when we are depressed, we start to limit ourselves to certain things or opportunities in life thinking that we won't be able to crack or grasp the left ones or we lack that thing in ourselves or we juss..can't do that. Negativity prevails all over our minds and these negative thoughts ruin our inner selves. We become like street dogs, who would shake their tails on getting even a few left overs of someone and would try to grab it with all our might. It's like, For example, Doing a rupees 5000 p.m. job of a salesman after pursuing an MBA degree from a good institution.
And, if we decide to go for it (i.e eat the left overs), we would feel some better.We 'll feel that our days have changed.
But, hey, are we missing something??
Ain't we settling for less.???
and lastly,
Why are we doing this..to ouselves??
Ask yourselves, because the answer lies within you. And then you'll realize that you ought not to do this anymore to yourself. You are invaluable. O Man! you are a cracker-jack!!:)
The thing you thought u lack is "Your Worth". My dear darling, all you need is to know your worth plus some LOVE( which is always in abundance than what you think you get, just feel it) and yeahhh...you're done!!! :)
Knowing your true worth will not only fill you with immense confidence but will make your inner self stable and your mental state peaceful.
I have something to share with you all. Some days back,I was checking my mail and got this really amazing piece of writing by Mr. Andrew Parr.
http://www.self-help-academy.org/self-worth/
Making a promise of never losing this faith in yourselves..no matter what and how difficult, the circumstances are.
Sometimes, We just need a wake-up call to come out of normality. This is your call, mine came some days back when i read this. It made me smile. Hope,you smiled too!
"If you can't Love yourself, how can you expect someone else to Love you.?"
I read these lines in the book "THE SECRET" by Rhonda Byran and truly believe in it. Trust me, Try it, it works wonders!
And with this, I am closing this post. In a hope of coming back here again,whenever I'll be in a state of self-doubt. Till then, take-care aka pamper yourselves.The next time you return, I wana see you all with a great smile on your face.
Life is a really tough game, play smartly as no one comes outta it alive!
Live, Love and Laugh to the fullest....Because, You're worth it.!!
You might find this rant an opposite one of the earlier one. Whateva, doesn't matter, but I have really got something great to share.
Its almost 20 days when i started blogging and dint write anything after that day. In these 20 days, I found, "the lost ME", "my love for myself". I stopped cribbing over what people did to me and the way they made me feel, I made sure my mood is awesome, watched my favorite movies and ate my favorite delicacies made by my super mom. Trust me,it felt like heaven. anyways, let's read over.
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At times in life, we feel under-confident? We often feel we are incapable? Thoughts like "we are a loser" come across our minds. It happens with almost every person but with some of them it stays for long and become their personality.Under-confidence, incapability, incompetence and hence, Failure become their idiosyncrasy. The coercion and burden of proving oneself lets him fall a prey to these vices which if not realized at an early stage would lead to a very sad ending without being able to actually start anything.
And all this while, when we are depressed, we start to limit ourselves to certain things or opportunities in life thinking that we won't be able to crack or grasp the left ones or we lack that thing in ourselves or we juss..can't do that. Negativity prevails all over our minds and these negative thoughts ruin our inner selves. We become like street dogs, who would shake their tails on getting even a few left overs of someone and would try to grab it with all our might. It's like, For example, Doing a rupees 5000 p.m. job of a salesman after pursuing an MBA degree from a good institution.
And, if we decide to go for it (i.e eat the left overs), we would feel some better.We 'll feel that our days have changed.
But, hey, are we missing something??
Ain't we settling for less.???
and lastly,
Why are we doing this..to ouselves??
Ask yourselves, because the answer lies within you. And then you'll realize that you ought not to do this anymore to yourself. You are invaluable. O Man! you are a cracker-jack!!:)
The thing you thought u lack is "Your Worth". My dear darling, all you need is to know your worth plus some LOVE( which is always in abundance than what you think you get, just feel it) and yeahhh...you're done!!! :)
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Knowing your true worth will not only fill you with immense confidence but will make your inner self stable and your mental state peaceful.
I have something to share with you all. Some days back,I was checking my mail and got this really amazing piece of writing by Mr. Andrew Parr.
http://www.self-help-academy.org/self-worth/
Have a read of it below, see what you think, and then follow the thoughts afterwards.
“I bargained with life for a penny,
And life would pay no more,
However I begged at evening time
When I counted my scanty store.
And life would pay no more,
However I begged at evening time
When I counted my scanty store.
For Life is a just employer,
Who gives you what you ask.
Once you have set the wages,
Why, you must bear the task.
Who gives you what you ask.
Once you have set the wages,
Why, you must bear the task.
I worked for a menials hire
Only to learn dismayed,
That any wage I had asked of life,
Life would have willingly paid!”
Only to learn dismayed,
That any wage I had asked of life,
Life would have willingly paid!”
So guys..just fall in love...WITH YOURSELVES!! <3 <3
Making a promise of never losing this faith in yourselves..no matter what and how difficult, the circumstances are.
Sometimes, We just need a wake-up call to come out of normality. This is your call, mine came some days back when i read this. It made me smile. Hope,you smiled too!
"If you can't Love yourself, how can you expect someone else to Love you.?"
I read these lines in the book "THE SECRET" by Rhonda Byran and truly believe in it. Trust me, Try it, it works wonders!
And with this, I am closing this post. In a hope of coming back here again,whenever I'll be in a state of self-doubt. Till then, take-care aka pamper yourselves.The next time you return, I wana see you all with a great smile on your face.
Life is a really tough game, play smartly as no one comes outta it alive!
Live, Love and Laugh to the fullest....Because, You're worth it.!!
Glad to see Richi back with her true colors and that everlasting self love! See, it shows even in this colorful post!
ReplyDeleteThe verse you mentioned is beautifully and profoundly written!
Now that someone has started loving herself back, when will I be seeing you so that we all can share all the dried up love? ;)
Keep Writing Rich! You're good! :)
Oh! thankyou very much Rach for such an enjoyable comment!
DeleteI really like to hear from you.
And yes, I just love myself. Hope you learnt something from this post, because you need it buddy! :p
Love never dries up, just sprinkle some drops of attention to yourself and leave the rest of the world(you know what i mean), the so called dried up love would blossom again! And this time, don't waste it uselessly!! :)
Very beautifully written!I get overwhelmed when I see your writing because from past 4-5 years this is the first time I saw that writer in you!!:) ;)
ReplyDeleteBy the way,as you said dont waste it uselessly!Dont you think its impossible to find the same love back?And how would we know whether its again wasted uselessly in this big bad world?:(
Thankyou Prerana! Its always good to hear from you. I was actually waiting for your comment babes! :)
DeleteAnd yup! You never saw me writing this way..never mind, because there's always a first time. isn't it?
And nah! I don't think its impossible to find the same love back. Because, Love can neither created nor can be destroyed by anything or anyone, its inside you and it remains there everytime, no matter what.This is my "law of conservation of love and life".
We keep loving or liking a thing or a person even if it had gone or decayed or hurt us, we do miss them because they leave a indelible imprint on our minds. Do give a thought to it babes! Keep visiting! :)
wow...the "law of conservation of love and life" :)
Deletekeep writing good stuffs like this,it inspires a sad person like me to be back to normal bright life now and then!!
Haha..sure babes! The feeling is mutual, it brings me back alive too. ;)
Deletekeep reading!
Awesome post Richi..!!
ReplyDeleteThat's an introspecting post. One must have knowledge of oneself.
And I got many things to learn from this deep post.
keep writing dear..Ol d best..:) :)
Thanks again brother! Yes, introspection is very important in ones life, in order to know ones strengths and weaknesses. It really helps a lot.
DeleteTry it! :)
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ReplyDeleteStarting is good , reflecting reality , and the words used are excellent , but this one line
ReplyDelete**Life is a really tough game, play smartly as no one comes outta it alive! **
is just like a bolt from the blue .. I mean in a positive manner .. Like before I was just reading the post normally , which initiates inner spark to do something . But then this line ( nicely embed in the post ) it just awakes to a level that * yes this is the time ** ..
so in a nutshell I must say a very GENERATIVE post .
Firstly, thanks a lot sir for reading my posts!
DeleteThanks again for dropping this amazing comment.
I am happy that u liked it and sachi me..i did'nt copy it..LoL :P